Jack has a love-hate relationship with the library. He loves to go pick out new books every couple of weeks, but he hates to return ones that have become favorites. Not too long ago it was Cowboy Small that even the mention of returning brought tears to the little man's eyes. He confessed his heartache to his most sympathetic confidant, Grandma, and before long he had his own cherished copy of Cowboy Small filling a spot on his bookshelf.
Pride is a hard thing for me to admit. I have a hard time taking a compliment. I very rarely feel as if I did something just right. I like to blame good things happening to me on chance instead of admitting that perhaps I had a role in the outcome.
Just this once, I am going to swallow that down and feel absolute pride in the fact that Jack loves books like he does. I did that. I fostered a love of stories in my little one. I created a boy who cannot go to sleep without a "couple of books" and who closes his eyes with several in his bed. It makes my heart happy to know that same boy looks through a couple of books before he ever gets out of bed in the morning. (Peeping Mom on the video monitor!)
Lately, Jack has wanted to listen to the same story over and over again. Today it was I Love You, Stinky Face. I read it seven times this afternoon, and John read it at least once. Admittedly, this grows a bit tiresome. We have a bookshelf filled with other stories for Jack to choose from. Luckily, I had recently received a newsletter warning me of the importance of this, so I'll read about boys turning into one eyed monsters, smelly skunks, and meat eating dinosaurs until he's ready for me to stop.
"Again!" The power of rereading
As your child's early literacy skills develop, it's important to allow him to choose which books he'd like to read when it's story time at home. It does sometimes get tiresome for you to read the same book over and over again. However, by doing so, you're helping your child to really think about and understand the book at hand and to make it his own in many ways. This rereading process is an important step in your child's literacy development, so go ahead and read
Good Night Moon one more-or 20 more!-times.
I've always admired an embroidered pillow that my sister has at her house. It says, "Richer than you you can never be for I had a mother who read to me." It actually comes from a poem written in the early 1900s that I found in a children's literacy book early on in my teaching career. I've always loved it.
The Reading Mom
by Stickland Gillian
I had a mother who read to me
Sagas of pirates who scoured the sea.
Cutlasses clenched in their yellow teeth;
"Blackbirds" stowed in the hold beneath.
I had a Mother who read me lays
Of ancient and gallant and golden days;
Stories of Marmion and Ivanhoe,
Which every boy has a right to know.
I had a Mother who read me tales
Of Gelert the hound of the hills of Wales,
True to his trust till his tragic death,
Faithfulness lent with his final breath.
I had a Mother who read me the things
That wholesome life to the boy heart brings-
Stories that stir with an upward touch.
Oh, that each mother of boys were such!
You may have tangible wealth untold;
Caskets of jewels and coffers of gold.
Richer than I you can never be --
I had a Mother who read to me.
And so I'll continue to read to my boys, hoping that I can make them feel as rich as they've made me.